Review: I Will Not Be Broken

Over the last few months I have collected an enormous stack of books for my “read when I get time” pile. The number is probably over 20 right now and growing. So far I am not doing all that well with reading ANY of them. I’ve started two and sort of fizzled out midway through. They didn’t catch my attention no matter how great everyone else claims they are. It’s ok though because I had another book find it’s way into the stack that I was offered to review and I couldn’t help but dive right in, again as I had time. The book, though not really loaded with THAT many pages (it’s very concise and to the point), took me a few weeks to finally finish. I am actually a little embarrassed about that but that is what happens when you have constant interruptions and very little time for yourself, as most moms I know can relate to. I don’t even get to shower without someone needing something most days so reading/comprehending can be quite a task!

Anyway … the book was I Will Not Be Broken: 5 Steps to Overcoming a Life Crisis by Jerry White. He lost his leg (and nearly his life) to a landmine in 1984. He is now an activist and co-founder of Survivor Corps. Jerry is, from what I can tell from reading about him, not only a survivor but a fantastic human being. He took a horrible tragedy in his own life and not only rebuilt himself but also used his experience to help other victims become survivors themselves. He believes that anyone, with the right tools, can rise above tragedy and even give back to their communities as well in the process.

I was in awe while reading this book and inspired at the same time. There are stories from other survivors like Jerry and there is also some great information, a formula almost, on how to survive any life crisis. These 5 steps could be used by absolutely anyone. You don’t have to go through a near death experience to feel as if you are nearly broken. Crisis comes in all forms.

I honestly really wish I would have had this 2.5 years years ago when I was dealing with my own life “crisis” (addiction issues, infidelity, nearly filing for divorce) and feeling as if my entire world was falling down around me while I had no say in the matter. I have spent the last few years feeling bitter and pessimistic about life no matter how much better things have been and it’s just ridiculous. Reading this book has really put a bug in my head to change my way of thinking.

So if you are looking for a good read that will not only nourish your need for entertainment but also your life, check this one out. I don’t think you will at all be disappointed and if you do, let me know what you thought about it! :)

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